Is there anyone on here who is absolutely 100 percent sure that they don't ever want and never will have children? I plead 'guilty' as one of them who does not. I am not sure if giving you an explanation why is beneficial or not so if you need me to provide my reasons, I will. Aside from that, I have noticed that people, me included are called selfish and other terrible names because we have made the decision to not have any. Just like we (the ones who don't want children) can't wrap our brains around why those who wanted children and have them, breeders can't wrap their brains around why those who do not want children do not have them. Also for those who truly believe in their hearts that it is selfish not to want children, I need to understand why and how.