Black Relationships : NONE COMMITMENT SEX

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  1. Kemetstry

    Kemetstry going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    In The Meantime Sex:
    Sex without commitment has become the norm. And that's cool if that's where you are in your life, just be respon...sible. But many people are not just having sex for fun, they're using sex to connect with another human being, sort of like a hug or as a means to feel wanted. We may not have the title or the ring, but we'll take the orgasm as compensation.
    In the meantime sex can be used as an escape from loneliness or a bridge from one failed relationship into the next. Or, if the sex is 'real good', as a tranquilizer to tolerate someone who we know is not right for us.
    Or maybe I'm wrong and sex is just sex, and everyone should just enjoy themselves as long as they use protection. But if you're like most people and sex bonds you to your partners you might want to rethink casual sex otherwise you might look up one day and realize that what was supposed to be, "In The Meantime Sex" has turned into a lifestyle that moves you further away from finding an ideal mate, not closer.

    Is this you?????




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    :10500:how do you know that?
     
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    What's new about casual sex?

    I'm confused.

    Orgasms are great, but ten times better with someone you're emotionally, mentally, and spiritually connected to.

    I enjoyed casual sex back in the day, but nothing compares to sex now.
     
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    jamesfrmphilly going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    post some.......
     
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    That's a bit naive, yeah?

    Most people know casual sex has become the norm. The way disease spreads, out of wedlock pregnancies, etc. kind of shows this to be so. Also, just talking with some people will let you know, sex isn't seen as that big a deal; not anymore. It's considered old fashioned by some to be seen any other way.
     
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    unfortunately, many times what 'most people know' is dead wrong......
     
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    I'm sure the ones doing it would know, James. Being partakers in it would give them that sort of knowledge, and most people partake in it; at least, here in the States.
     
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    I don't know of anyone who does......
     
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    You live in a really nice area then, where people know how to control themselves, I take it.

    I know and know of a bunch.
     
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