In The Meantime Sex:
Sex without commitment has become the norm. And that's cool if that's where you are in your life, just be respon...sible. But many people are not just having sex for fun, they're using sex to connect with another human being, sort of like a hug or as a means to feel wanted. We may not have the title or the ring, but we'll take the orgasm as compensation.
In the meantime sex can be used as an escape from loneliness or a bridge from one failed relationship into the next. Or, if the sex is 'real good', as a tranquilizer to tolerate someone who we know is not right for us.
Or maybe I'm wrong and sex is just sex, and everyone should just enjoy themselves as long as they use protection. But if you're like most people and sex bonds you to your partners you might want to rethink casual sex otherwise you might look up one day and realize that what was supposed to be, "In The Meantime Sex" has turned into a lifestyle that moves you further away from finding an ideal mate, not closer.
Is this you?????
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Sex without commitment has become the norm. And that's cool if that's where you are in your life, just be respon...sible. But many people are not just having sex for fun, they're using sex to connect with another human being, sort of like a hug or as a means to feel wanted. We may not have the title or the ring, but we'll take the orgasm as compensation.
In the meantime sex can be used as an escape from loneliness or a bridge from one failed relationship into the next. Or, if the sex is 'real good', as a tranquilizer to tolerate someone who we know is not right for us.
Or maybe I'm wrong and sex is just sex, and everyone should just enjoy themselves as long as they use protection. But if you're like most people and sex bonds you to your partners you might want to rethink casual sex otherwise you might look up one day and realize that what was supposed to be, "In The Meantime Sex" has turned into a lifestyle that moves you further away from finding an ideal mate, not closer.
Is this you?????
..