With party season arriving and many of us getting ready for family and such, I wanted to share a belief that I hold about New Years Eve.
The secret I discovered is to shape the coming year by DOING something I want more of; participate or create an environment that enhances some ascpect of my energy I wish to increase. In other words, HOW I spend the New Year's Eve actually determines the return on the rest of the year!
Allow me to bend your ear; for most of my youth, New Year's Eve meant going out buying a new dress if I could afford it, or pulling a hot number out of the closet, getting tickets to a party, getting my drink on and dancing the night away to the rhythm of the night. :drums:
All in all, it would be a long evening, and New Year's Day meant sleeping in.
One year, I got the idea to spend it alone, just me with some of my favorite foods, a few colored pencils, and some books by my favorite authors. Well, my family (who already thinks I'm eccentric) really thought I had stumbled upon crazy this time. I had a peaceful night, and I discovered that I really liked to draw. That year, I received a book called "The Artists Way" and more art supplies came my way. I also had a great year academically, and it was peaceful.
From that time on, I have spent more New Year's Eve's alone, meditating and doing acts of self-care.
Last year I made a HUGE mistake and did not listen to my Spirit! And I paid the price! New Year's 2007, I was guided to stay in town and attend a Jamaican party. Instead I drove into the city, rushed to get to three different parties and in the end felt exhausted rather than satisfied. The highlight was singing a few karaoke songs for a rather uninterested crowd.
Well, I ended up moving to the city in February, something I still pine over , I worked as a karaoke hostess, but I also moved 3 times in 2008! Was that fun? Heck no - I was pregnant during all the transition. The father and I were arguing that night and didn't see one another or reconcile in person, although I did want to see him. I wanted to see him in person to let him know he was going to be a father! Well this year was difficult for both of us and I have actually been more physically exhausted than I ever remember being in my life!
I wonder what the results would be of attending a masquerade party on
New Year's Eve? Or joining a group to meditate at a vortex? Or winning money at the casino (although that could be a little too risque)
It looks as if I may be hostessing a party this year, and that's fine with me, because I'm bringing in money and having fun while doing it.
And as Mistress of Ceremonies I'm going to look so fine even though it's a little bitty pub
If not then I have other plans that are low key but inline with creating stability and increasing resources, and of course honoring my ancestors.
What are your plans for New Year's Eve 2008?