Most people blame the youth because to be young is to be inexperienced and naice in the ways of the world.. so they say. I was always one of those "old souls" growing up. My sister and I usually hung around older people.
Most people think that youth is be cherised and enjoyed. See, when most of us were young(er) we couldn't wait to be grown. Now we're grown, and we want to go back. Adulthood isn't all it's cracked up to be.
As far as car accidents and things of that nature, the teenager gets blamed most of the time because they do not have the experience on the road that the elderlt person has. I mean, someone who has been driving for a year, versus someone who has been driving those same raods for 40 or 50 years.... There's no contest. Additionally, young(er) people are blamed because they are more likely to be distracted by things like the radio, the ringing cell phone, the gorup of frinds int he back seat.
Now, people who use their youth as a scapegoat is something different. These are simply young(er) people who do not wish to be saddled with so-called "adult" responsibility.
You, my dear, seem to be a very mature 16 year old, and I commend you. You seem to have a pretty good idea of what you want. Aim for it.
Toya
BTW - I'm only 24, so we're not that far apart. Feel free to talk to me anytime!