Sis. your story just dumbfounded me. Forgive me if I don't understand because I do have compassion for you and your situation. I don't mean to sound critical, but I really don't understand why so many black women get involved with men like this. There are women in my family who have gotten involved with men like this, but they can't explain why. So I'm asking you-Why did you get involved with him in the first place? I'm honestly trying to understand this, and just maybe even some really inexperienced women reading this can avoid making the same mistake.
Are men like this in heavy disguise? Didn't you know his type? His type is so common now. They're everywhere. I see them all the time. I wouldn't even let a man like this even give me the time of day. I wouldn't even want a man like that in the same area as me, breathing the same air I breathe, let alone touch me and make a baby with me. I hear stories like this at work and I cannot ask the women who I talk with this question: With all the losers out there, why is it that Black women still can't recognize losers? I know that other women get involved with them too, but I'm just asking you as a black woman to break this down.