Black Relationships : Never approached as a black woman

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  1. Angela22

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    I understand what you mean, and don't disagree. Happy? :p:lol:
     
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    Wait, do I have to give you your own lecture on traditional roles???????




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    Some men are intimidated by beauty

    Some men may think you are so beautiful you are already locked up

    Some men may have someone already but still flirt and compliment

    Some men only like tall short dark light skinny fat females and you don't fit that preference

    Some women don't know the womanly are of flirtation themselves

    Don't press. When he comes and he will, just be ready




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    Thank you so much for your comment. Also, it means so much to me how you started a thread on the Hausa tribe. I think many other black Americans don't know much about this tribe so its nice you are introducing it in a forum.
     
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    You may not be being approached at the moment, but did you consider that the person interested may be observing you? That's what I have learned to do concerning any woman I'm interested in, especially her conversation and handling of people and situations.
     
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    Maybe it's your entitlement attitude. What are you doing besides looking cute? Why should anyone be interested in you simply because of your outward appearance?
    Dudes steer clear of women that are "too pretty" for a reason.. and it's not because they're scared. It's because of the baggage that comes along with a woman that believes
    her looks entitles her to something.

    Not saying that that's what you do, but is it? Should simply being female and being cute get you somewhere with dudes? Think about it.

    context is everything.
     
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