Black Relationships : Need advice- Communication problem

Discussion in 'Black Relationships' started by karamell1, Jan 9, 2006.

  1. karamell1

    karamell1 New Member MEMBER

    Jan 9, 2006
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  2. Dual Karnayn

    Dual Karnayn Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Nov 5, 2005
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    My first piece of advice to you is to either wait until your son is about 15 or 16 before you start dating and bringing men up in the house.
    Or find a good man who loves both you and your son and MARRY him.

    You probably won't do that....but I'd be remiss if I didn't put it out there for the record.

    Now my second piece of advice is to accept the fact that this man has NO OBLIGATION what so ever to buy your son jack.

    It's YOU he's in love with, not your son....that's YOUR son...not his.

    The only thing he owes your son and your son owes him is mutual respect; anything else he does should only be out of the kindness of his heart. Not to score more brownie points with you.

    I know what happened; you put too much pressure on the brutha.
    He figures he's a good man and didn't deserved to have that responsibility placed on him.

    Has he ever bought your son anything....dinner, pop, movie, ect...?