My older sister's been dating this one moron for a little over a year, and he treats her like an effing hooker. She hasn't been living with my family since two years ago, but she visits often and she's been bringing her little boyfriend along with her for like the past five months almost every week. Everyone in my family hates this guy. He's obnoxious, he's narcissistic, he offends people without giving them the right to be offended, and he's ignorant. He just does not know how he should treat woman. He orders my sister around like she's his maid, and he doesn't even have the courtesy to open a door for her or pull ot her chair. He acts like its his right. One would think that he wouldn't be so bossy around his grilfriend's parents, but this guy, I think, has the idea in his head that he's God's Italian gift to my family and that we should all be grateful. He's a distraction to my sister. I think he's the reason she's been having more problems keeping up with her academics (yes, we still check up on her), lately, which is serious because she's not in high school anymore. Everything she does defines how successful she'll end up. Anyway today, she calls and tells me to tell my parents when they got home that she's moving in with the jerkoff, because they're ready to be more serious. So I tell her that I hate him and she gets mad at me. Well, what was I supposed to do? I thought that they would start to fall apart, not get closer. She gives me a lecture on how I should get out of her business and that she's staying with him, blah, blah, blah. Now she's mad at me and ignoring me. I don't know why she likes him so much. They have absolutely nothing in common. He doesn't even understand our culture or why we're not the same color (which is weird, considering Italians come in many colors, too). He doesn't like that my parents are strict and "in her business," he doesn't like that she studies psychology, he doesn't like that she doesn't allow him to smoke in the car, he doesn't understand why she doesn't like to drink alcohol when they go out, and he doesn't like that she changes her hair color all the time. And he was dumb enough to say this all out loud in an overly-comfortable tone. I don't know how to make her see.