Black People : My Problem with Black People

Discussion in 'Black People Open Forum' started by rapchild, Mar 6, 2013.

  1. rapchild

    rapchild Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Country:
    Ghana
    Joined:
    Sep 17, 2006
    Messages:
    446
    Likes Received:
    200
    Gender:
    Male
    Ratings:
    +209
    I had a big problem with Destee members which led to me not being an active member for a few years.My scope has broadened interms of how i see people,life and the world.Now like i said and explained before as an African born and raised in Ghana im here to reunite with my fellow Black/Africans from America and beyond.Bridging the gap,Bring closure,dialog etc.But some of you members are stuck up.You think i want something from you.The so called intellectuals/Educated people here think the criteria of being smart is using big words.For Christ sake who are you trying to impress? uppidy white people who will never respect you.You are actually leaving your audience dumber than when they came in.When lots of black people or people in General dont show up for your lectures and siminars you think is because they rather go to cookouts, clubs, music concerts, sports game or the like.
    How did Malcolm X, Martin L. King and the like communicate with the people? Do you listen to their speeches or do you pay attention? Bob Marley said and i quote "when you are explaining something to someone explain it to them like you are talkin to a child"
    Finally some of the Destee female members make me laugh, HAHAAHHAHAHAAHA.When you trying to spark a conversation with them (Playing Dumb and stupid like i usually do) They think you tryin to get with them.Do i look like someone who finds it hard to get involved with the opposite sex.I rather not most of these women are lost(I dont mean destee members) Their parents failed to raise them up right and the men they usually meet take advantage of them.
    I was speaking to a 60 something year old woman(Destee member) a few months ago and she kept saying do u know am old enough to be your mother.I never said anything that indicated i was trying to get in her pants.You know who you are.You really thought i was trying to F**K you? Really?
    PLEEEEEEEAAAASSSEE.Thats what i get for trying to be friendly.I live in another continent for Christ sake.Even if i was, dont you old women fantasize about being with a much younger man.Doesnt it excite you that someone that young could find you attractive and desirable.Apart from the women(both male and female included) you ask for a simple email and NAAAW They think you gonna bother them and Sh*t.NEGROES PLEASE.What do you have that im trying to get.Please tell me?
    Am tryin to help you know your roots and im being disrespected OK Cool if thats what some of you want then your wish just came true.Africa has been through enough we dont want any kind of people here anymore.Whether you are black,white or whatever race stay out.GET YOUR MIND RIGHT PEOPLE.

    Am not scared of nobody i can types names of members but is not necessary.No need to give them attention.All the attention should be on the situation not who or what caused it.

    This is not a Destee Member Problem is a General Black people problem.Even some Africans look down on other Africans so why not Black Americans.Decieving Images from the media contribute to this as well but not all of it.

    I WILL STILL WARN YOU,BECAREFUL OF SOME AFRICANS ON AND OFF THE CONTINENT.DONT BE A VICTIM TO THEIR SCAMS.FRAUDSTERS ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR THEir NEXT TARGET.Dont blame them they are lost, they think the only way to be happy is to bring hurt and misfortune to other people.
     
  2. Angela22

    Angela22 Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Country:
    United States
    Joined:
    Feb 26, 2013
    Messages:
    6,583
    Likes Received:
    2,894
    Gender:
    Female
    Ratings:
    +3,317
    You finished? I can understand the points you made, but please don't see it just from your point. A lot of guys go through what you do, even in America; that is, being friendly with a gal and the woman thinking he's trying to hook up when he's just being nice. But a lot of women have to deal with guys trying to hook up with them on a daily basis, so sometimes they mistake one thing for another; don't take it too personally.

    As for the other stuff, I've learned this much; if you let out a bunch of frustration or anger or bitterness, let that be done, but don't let it rest in you anymore or else you'll turn on those nearest to you and eventually the whole human race by reason of flaws you can't see pass, which undoubtedly you demonstrate to others, yourself. You may so easily see these flaws in others, but remember, it can be seen in you just as fast. This world just isn't a friendly one, so many times, you are going to feel slighted, just hold your chin up and don't change yourself into what (you feel) everyone is being toward you; bitter and stuck up!
     
  3. rapchild

    rapchild Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Country:
    Ghana
    Joined:
    Sep 17, 2006
    Messages:
    446
    Likes Received:
    200
    Gender:
    Male
    Ratings:
    +209
    Well you said you wanted to say or write something smart,there you have it.Thanks for taking the time to explain but i know all you said.Am above this nothings gets to me.Sometimes you just have to let it out and make people know that you know what they thinking.It dont bother me,i just hope they know what they are doing.

    what do u mean by you finish? huh u know what dont bother.
     
  4. Angela22

    Angela22 Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Country:
    United States
    Joined:
    Feb 26, 2013
    Messages:
    6,583
    Likes Received:
    2,894
    Gender:
    Female
    Ratings:
    +3,317
    I meant, "are you finished disclosing all what you wanted to share?". You seem really bent out of shape by this. You're above this? Nothing gets to you? Caught you in a lie there partner, since it seems this has gotten to you...a lot.
     
  5. info-moetry

    info-moetry STAFF STAFF

    Country:
    United States
    Joined:
    Dec 20, 2004
    Messages:
    10,724
    Likes Received:
    6,428
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    A+ technician
    Location:
    The rotten Apple
    Ratings:
    +6,486
    oK, but why did you feel the need to let it our TWICE??
     
  6. rapchild

    rapchild Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Country:
    Ghana
    Joined:
    Sep 17, 2006
    Messages:
    446
    Likes Received:
    200
    Gender:
    Male
    Ratings:
    +209
    @ Angela i dont like going back and Forth.People will believe what they wanna believe, nothing you and me can do about it.

    My fraustration is around the fact that is been so many years and most of us still dont get it.It Hurts, it really does.There is an African-American community here in Ghana that is increasing yearly and they do.Why not the rest.Some of us r slow? OK but that answer only sounds good to me.

    My man Info-metry come on you know some people come on this site as guests so they may think it doesnt apply to them.so i had to post one for Destee members and the other one for all Black People just in case the think it dont apply to them.

    No disrespect to Destee.
     
  7. rapchild

    rapchild Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Country:
    Ghana
    Joined:
    Sep 17, 2006
    Messages:
    446
    Likes Received:
    200
    Gender:
    Male
    Ratings:
    +209
    Is just a matter of time till you get the picture of trying to project.

    May God Bless you all with Wisdom, Knowledge and Understanding.There will be a time i will not explain myself.
     
  8. Angela22

    Angela22 Well-Known Member MEMBER

    Country:
    United States
    Joined:
    Feb 26, 2013
    Messages:
    6,583
    Likes Received:
    2,894
    Gender:
    Female
    Ratings:
    +3,317

    I don't like to go back and forth either which is why I was trying to get to the bottom of this, quick, fast, and in a hurry; and not much we can do about others, no. But don't let frustrations get to you like that. I asked myself a while back why don't people in general get it, but I had to step back off of that and leave them be or else I was just going to go insane.

    Just because you feel your words aren't getting into the head of someone for their betterment doesn't mean you should then let their actions get to your spirit for your detriment, k? All right.
     
  9. Enki

    Enki The Evolved Amphibian STAFF

    Country:
    United States
    Joined:
    Aug 27, 2010
    Messages:
    8,153
    Likes Received:
    4,926
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Civil Eng.
    Location:
    The Third Plane of Existence
    Ratings:
    +5,928
    Calm down bruh...

    If you say "nothing" bother's you, why the post? Just let some people live and die in ignorance. We are all humans and thing do bother us, even though we use comments like these to shore up our masculinity. (big word)

    And speaking of big words, I at times use them, for different reasons. It's a matter of perspective. Why should I talk to whity and use words that I know they get and understand, but assume I have to to dumb down my speech when it comes to my race. That's a slap in the face. And you must not have heard many of MLK's speeches because if you had, you would not have made that comment.

    For example:

    http://www.mlkonline.net/jail.html

    These are lines taken from the letter he wrote while he was in jail, a letter he wrote to black folks. Now what grade level do you think many of these words are on? They are not on a "child's" level. The problem may be that you fear educated people, or don't know many words to convey your thoughts. In either case, don't dump on people cuz dey choose to use dey vocabularee buy assumin you have da same intel-lek.

    Peace!
     
  10. Enki

    Enki The Evolved Amphibian STAFF

    Country:
    United States
    Joined:
    Aug 27, 2010
    Messages:
    8,153
    Likes Received:
    4,926
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Civil Eng.
    Location:
    The Third Plane of Existence
    Ratings:
    +5,928
    I seems that this was too obvious to miss:cool:

    Peace!
     
Loading...