- Feb 26, 2013
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He likes you. But you should not be forward or direct, 'cause it knocks a man off his rhythm. Guys know that if a woman says "Wanna lay with me" after we ask for their names it's a bit intimidating.
He can be playing subtle openers, in which you are supposed to likewise accept. For instance, his leg might touch yours, so just casually touch your leg against his. Or even his hand may be close, so ease nearer it. These are unspoken techniques for communicating attraction beyond friendship. If he likes you, he's paying attention to when you touch his shoulder, how closely you stand, and when or where you two touch.
As yours is a transitional relation, directness isn't the name of the game.
It depends on the guy, Asomfwaa.
Just know your man! If you know he doesn't like women being straightforward, then you give him time, but if you know he doesn't mind, or aren't certain, it seems to be best to go for it.
There are some really great guys out there, who are incredibly shy or really afraid of coming off as a creeper, so you don't have much of a choice, unless you want to continue guessing. It can be intimidating for him, and he even might reject you just for that, but it lets him know your true feelings, and he might come back around to asking you out in time, just because some guys believe it's their jobs to do that, and not yours.