Black Relationships : My Aging Standards, and Being Single

[Keita Kenyatta]

Do you regret not making it work with your second wife?

You know, there was a time where I did feel this way deep in my heart...and as of today, I know for a fact that regardless of the fact that she and I are with someone else, I could go there and tell her to kick him out and she would. But here is the real truth and a truth that really took time for me to learn and understand for what it is. "Where ever you are at any point in time is where you are supposed to be, regardless of if you understand why or why not". This is why introspection is so important. I'm on of the few brothers who can say that "I divorced women, they didn't divorce me". Right now there is a woman who I had a baby with on the side....and she right now is still waiting for me and it's been over 30 years. She once told me; " I don't know what it is about you....but if I could bottle it, I'd be rich". Ever since she said that, I have been looking at myself in hopes of seeing what she saw and I still haven't found it. What ever it is, I have never taken advantage of any woman who has loved me. I have one right now who makes over 100,000 a year and I let her go all because she tried to buy me in a manner
of speaking. Check this out. Right now I am two years away from 60 years old and physically and mentally I embarrass brothers who are in their 30's. The photo you see of me is at age 58....and I got the six pack all all else to go with it. You yourself know from reading my writings that my mind is sharp and that I'm not caught up in old thinkings and thoughts. Right now as far as I am concerned, I am in the prime of my life!