- May 18, 2003
- 27
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Hi everyone
me and my boyfriend been together for a while and every since we watched a certain movie, he basically has been paranoid and drawing really negative conclusions about me, and it got to the point where he had to go to a psychiatric ward, but he still believes whatever delusions that he has concocted about me, yet he tells his family how great of a woman I am and how he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I have told him on several occasions that if he has such a problem with me and really believes what he believes about me then a) we shouldn't be together and b) he needs to tell his family not only the good things but also the negative things he is so sure about (even though it isn't true) and he never responds to that. He claims he wants a fresh start but as bad as I want that, it's hard for me to do that when he walks around believing negative things about me that isnt true.
My questions are:
1) Should I stick it out and give us a fresh start and forget about waiting around until he no longer believes the negative accusations he has placed upon me
2) Why is it that he talks down to me and strongly believes these negative things about me but yet he doesn't call off the relationship, or tell his family how the negative things he feels about me
Thanks
me and my boyfriend been together for a while and every since we watched a certain movie, he basically has been paranoid and drawing really negative conclusions about me, and it got to the point where he had to go to a psychiatric ward, but he still believes whatever delusions that he has concocted about me, yet he tells his family how great of a woman I am and how he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I have told him on several occasions that if he has such a problem with me and really believes what he believes about me then a) we shouldn't be together and b) he needs to tell his family not only the good things but also the negative things he is so sure about (even though it isn't true) and he never responds to that. He claims he wants a fresh start but as bad as I want that, it's hard for me to do that when he walks around believing negative things about me that isnt true.
My questions are:
1) Should I stick it out and give us a fresh start and forget about waiting around until he no longer believes the negative accusations he has placed upon me
2) Why is it that he talks down to me and strongly believes these negative things about me but yet he doesn't call off the relationship, or tell his family how the negative things he feels about me
Thanks