"Mother... Father... we need to talk...

Discussion in 'Black Parenting' started by Nia Maishani, Sep 27, 2003.

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What is your response to your children?

  1. NOT ACCEPTABLE, PERIOD. This conversation is over!

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  2. Remain calm, hear them out, see if we can negotiate the situation.

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  3. Respect their feelings/wishes/choices as adults and support them as their loving parents.

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  4. Seek counseling for the whole family.

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  1. Nia Maishani

    Nia Maishani Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    ...my brother/sister and I are in love and want to marry. We've already been intimate."
     
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    SayWord Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    WHOA! We'd have to go see a preist and a psychologist. I really hope that I never have to have that conversation.
     
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    NOT ACCEPTABLE,PERIOD....I WOULD BREAK IT ALL THE WAY DOWN AS TO WHY IT'S NOT ACCEPTABLE,& IF THE BEHAVIOR HAPPENED AGAIN,THEY WOULD BOTH BE PUT IN SEPERATE ASYLUMS,TO AVOID ME FROM BURYING THEM BEFORE THEIR TIME.
     
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    not acceptable no doubt but i would have to break it down why this can never be and i will seek them some kind of counseling
    most of all i will try to fine out where it all started at and what brought this kinda love on to even get like that in the family....
    there are many ways i would step to handle this in best to everybody but i show nuff hope this never happen in my family
    that's too whack to think about.
     
  5. Nia Maishani

    Nia Maishani Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Hmmm.....
     
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    You know in school once I learn that the royal families of England continuously and only marry inside the blood... brother marry sister, cousin marry cousin..or if a parent died, then mother marry son, dauther marry father...Especially during King James time. This explain alot of their wild and mental-problematic behaviors. Blood isn't suppost to get too close like that.
     
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    Peace; That's interesting about king james. And his name on the Bible, even.
     
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    Hi Nia Maishani, may I ask why you pose this question?....just curious....Thanks
     
  9. Nia Maishani

    Nia Maishani Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Happy to explain...

    Mahogany Brown,

    My reason for posing this question was to see if those who responded would evidence hypocritic reasoning. Specifically, as you may have already observed, there have been at least two other threads with a similar title in the Relationships forum. The difference is that the others posed a scenario where the child reveals his or her sexual orientation to be homosexual. In this, the scenario presents the children revealing their sexual orientation to be incestuous. That's all.

    Nia M
     
  10. Nia Maishani

    Nia Maishani Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    And...

    ...there seems to be just a bit of hypocrisy here...
     
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