Black Relationships : Mom/dad can we talk

Discussion in 'Black Relationships' started by Alkebulantaazar, Aug 20, 2003.

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Mon/dad can i talk to you?

  1. would you go off!

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  2. would you ask them to move

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  3. would you ask them what u had done wrong

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  4. would you ask who they are involved with

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  1. Alkebulantaazar

    Alkebulantaazar Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Please answer this what would you do and how would you react if your son/daughter told you they were gay/lesbian?
     
  2. NNQueen

    NNQueen going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    If my son/daughter told me they were gay/lesbian I would continue to be their parent and love them the same as I did before I knew. I'm not going to consider committing suicide or homocide over it nor am I going to burn him/her at the stake because of it. It would be a lie if I didn't say that I would be shocked at first. Like any loving parent, I would be afraid for their welfare knowing how people like this are viewed and treated in many places around the world. But, would I love them any less? No.
     
  3. SayWord

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    I'll be honest. I'd be a little shocked. But I'd get over it. It's my son/daughter. I can't hate them. If they were involved with someone I'd want to meet that person just as if they were in a heterosexual relationship. I'm always going to support them. After a certain age, I will support my children in whatever choices they make, as long as they do good in school and keep their head on straight.
     
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