meet me half way......
you need to know that i do not understand a thing that you said.
OK... so just ONE thing? What the hell... I have so many!
But one is a start, maybe it will lead into the others.
OK, first thing... realize that as a BLACK WOMAN my issues and desires for feminism and with feminist thought are separate and/or not 100% in accordance with the goals and issues of white women, and I absolutely despise and tire of it getting relegated to such. Just because I've adopted the label that doesn't mean my ideology and goals remains the same as theirs. Using white women as a decoy to destroy and divide black women over feminism, feminist ideology or the label of 'feminist/feminism' is destructive and unfair - AND BLACK MEN KNOW IT!
Therefore black men are willful contributors in this destruction and the division of not only black women, but between black women and men and of our communities.
I want you to ASK us what we desire, what we want, want we are willing to work towards or against (hopefully with you, not without you or against you) while embracing this label of feminist/feminism and some parts of the general thought or ideology, instead of assuming we're just lackies for white women and their own agenda.
I do not think that is too much to ask.
you need to know that i do not understand a thing that you said.