It doesn't make sense to play the victim, when it isn't true! When it comes to sex & its consequences (disease, unwanted pregnancy, deadbeat fathers)....women have more control over the situation, than many of them like to claim!Oba Iparankanru said:I wonder how exactly thats possible? I pretty much agree with panafrica on this one. I can't think of anyway a man can possibly trap a woman with a baby unless she's super blonde and or mentally retarded. especially with how the laws are set up.