I was looking through the forums and i see a lot of finger pointing. Men blaming women and women blaming men about why relationships don't work out. I would like to ask the men and women of this forum are you in a long lasting meaningful relationships. If so What makes it work for you. The reason why i ask is if the men/women is to blame why relationships don't last, how are the people in this forum (if there is any ) able to have long meaningful relationships. If the ones who are not in long loving relationships does the blaming the other sex for our short coming as a strong black family take away any hope that one day you will have one? BTW I'm new to this forum and I really don't want to get banned. If there is a problem with my post y'all can take it down.