There is still the tradition of men asking women to marry them. Just the same that women mostly have power over whether she and a guy will be having sex, men have power over whether they'll be in it for the long haul together. Y'all not even trying, anymore. But I do agree sex is way too easy to get. But y'all gon' complain either way. True. Women don't have to sleep with losers, but those same losers don't have to sleep with women who shouldn't be having babies either. Cooking and taking care of a home is all a "real man" wants? Gosh, he so basic. I thought real men wanted a partner, not a servant. I'm trying to build with you, not watch you build yourself to death, just to sweep up afterwards. And I HAVE called black women out. Maybe not entirely on this site, but I think face to face matters more. Plus, I said, "beatings" not spankings. Spanking is fine. So black men who are getting all these women pregnant of many different races are making educated decisions not to marry any of them because they are too darn dependent? But it was okay to leave them with child, and let that child experience the world without the man who created them? Wow. Thank you for letting me know, Kem. You so smart. I did no such thing. I don't have a problem with the dude; I don't even KNOW the dude, but he drew the conclusion that I'm a bad guy who hates black men, so he obviously has a problem with me seeing that he's a black man. What else can be stated? It's done.