Black Relationships : Men don't like it when a woman knows what she wants??

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  1. MsInterpret

    MsInterpret Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    The older I've been getting, the more my standards for dating and men have changed. I can say my list has gotten longer and the descriptions much more broader, but that's because the men I've come across have become much more ignorant.

    So I was on this dating site and I put up what I look for in a man and what I don't. This brother sent me a message saying I was cute, but too straightforward.

    I didn't know a woman could be too straightforward?

    And my list wasn't outrageous or anything

    Here's what it says:

    So then he said that women should show thugs love too...and that every man needs a lil "gangster" in him...

    WTH!
     
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    Wow!

    I think when it becomes clear to a women what she needs and not what she wants, those men who don't fit the criteria will cry out the loudest.

    I didn't read anything outrages in your request. Perhaps he was just pulling your leg. Wanted to strike op a conversation and get a rise out of you.

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  3. MsInterpret

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    Get a rise? Smh...why do MEN do that? Isn't that what boys are supposed to do in Junior high?
     
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    yeah, but you know what they say? In every women is the gurls she once was and the same goes for men. lol Also, not every grown person matures with the age appropriated statistics.

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    1. Anything in pants and a 3rd leg isnt necessarily a man

    2. Maturity isnt an equal opportunity thing

    3. You assumed, just because you matured, everyone else did

    Men dont have a problem with being str8 forward or str8 forward women. Babyboi does












    :em0200:

     
  6. MsInterpret

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    Who said I assumed that?
     
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    my sister likes octopus. why do women like octopus?
     
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    Octopus?
     
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    He is clearly letting you know how low his standards are, what to expect from him, and the type of women he is used to...i bet he still lives with at home his mommy...:bawling:

    shake him off and move to the next, and i don't think this is indicative of what most men want... but if it is then....:SuN018: we all are screwed...
     
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    I don't like girls that don't know what they want, even when I was young.
    A woman that knows what she wants is easier to deal with, If she is clear, I'm wanted, it makes for a greater adventure!
     
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