The older I've been getting, the more my standards for dating and men have changed. I can say my list has gotten longer and the descriptions much more broader, but that's because the men I've come across have become much more ignorant. So I was on this dating site and I put up what I look for in a man and what I don't. This brother sent me a message saying I was cute, but too straightforward. I didn't know a woman could be too straightforward? And my list wasn't outrageous or anything Here's what it says: So then he said that women should show thugs love too...and that every man needs a lil "gangster" in him... WTH!