I have come accustom to people TRYING to claim I'm angry and bitter to rationalize me actually caring about people being taken advantage of, so it's ok. Men should be angry and bitter. I'm not blaming the system and women for everything. I was pretty clear when I said that men who outright refuse to take responsibility, should get exactly what they deserve. I doubt if anyone chooses to aknowledge that statement though. It doesn't matter if it's the majority or not, the fact that it's putting a lot of men through hell is enough to actually address it. If people aknowledge that the system is flawed, we should not just say "O well, so a few innocent dudes get screwed for 18 yrs, no big deal". That's idiotic. Is it the same arguement when SOME innocent black men are jailed simply because other black men commit crimes? Same thing. All men who don't live with their kids, shouldn't be treated as if they are the same as someone who outright dodges his responsibility, but that's exactly what's happening. As far as men just swallowing injustice and smiling while they do it, that's not the way to deal with the problem. We wonder why this phenomenon is stil in existance. It's because ironically a lot of men don't mind being raked over the coals. Men should take care of their kids, no question. But to expect men to just allow women to do them any kind of way is just sad. I'm not the one making excuses, because I've held men that refuse to help in the same light as these women and the system. It seems like a few of you guys are willing to just give women a complete pass in the name of so-called "being a man and taking care of responsibility". That has nothing to do with being a man. All that says is you're willing to let our own women stand in the same line as white people to disrespect and exploit us. Nothing honorable about that.