Black Men : Men do you have a big belly...this is good news for you

Discussion in 'Black Men - Fathers - Brothers - Sons' started by dunwiddat, Sep 14, 2014.

  1. dunwiddat

    dunwiddat Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    LOL, so what about big belly women? Should men toss them to the side as easily as y'all do the men?

    Just asking. BTW, I really do not care about your personal preferences, I just want to understand how if a man has preferences against how a female looks, females get up in arms but I see threads like this and I shake my head at the "cake and eat it too" attitude.
     
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    That's true. It does come off as a double standard.
     
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    lmao... lmbao...

    Let me get this straight.... naw, I really don't want to know, the first response is always the closest to accuracy... but as said.. double standard

    and to a point, and in my reference, I simply hold it as a standard... there is a difference of having a few pounds on you, being thick where all the weight happens to be in the right places, and being fat/obese... and I usually shun the last for a possible bedmate, so I understand what they are saying... that part of attraction, the visual one, gets you in the door while substance is evaluated.
     
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