Black Relationships : Men: Compare women you date to your mother?

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  1. MsInterpret

    MsInterpret Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Men do you compare women you date with some of the qualities of your mother?

    Which qualities?
     
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    Being a moma boy and watching my mother i'll say yes !
    But i have alwayz had a five major quality rule i looked for in a good woman .
     
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    Were some of those qualities your mother also had? And what were they?
     
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    yes sister but they are part of my secret to finding the good in a woman
    it's like showing your hand at a card table and we know u never show ya
    hand til the last bet and deal is done.

    But i'll say this i haven't found a woman who had all five maybe three but never five.
     
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    Me too. If she hates Booker T. Wahington, she is no good for me. That is one quality I always look for. There are others. But like the brother said, I do not want to show my hand. Tings are already hard enough for a brother without us giving away all our secrets. LOOOOL
     
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    Peace,

    Yes I do. The best qualities of my mother.

    Peace
     
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    I only have one mother. I dont want another one. They have been nothing like my mother













    :em0200:

     
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    i can honestly say no...of ocurse there will be some attributes they share with my mom but i dont go around looking for another version of my mom to date
     
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    Interesting...I wonder if it has to do with a man being a "mama's boy" that he wants to have his woman to have the same attributes as his mother...

    And I'm not talking about in an incestuous way...

    For example: Attitude and beliefs

    Not exactly looking like your mother...(that may be a bit creepy)
     
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    Not a fan of mama's boys

    I love men who love their mother's...but I do not want to be compared to anyone's mother....Or feel like I have to compete with a guy's mother.



     
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