Discussion in 'Black Relationships' started by MsInterpret, Jun 28, 2010.
Men do you compare women you date with some of the qualities of your mother?
Being a moma boy and watching my mother i'll say yes !
But i have alwayz had a five major quality rule i looked for in a good woman .
Were some of those qualities your mother also had? And what were they?
yes sister but they are part of my secret to finding the good in a woman
it's like showing your hand at a card table and we know u never show ya
hand til the last bet and deal is done.
But i'll say this i haven't found a woman who had all five maybe three but never five.
Me too. If she hates Booker T. Wahington, she is no good for me. That is one quality I always look for. There are others. But like the brother said, I do not want to show my hand. Tings are already hard enough for a brother without us giving away all our secrets. LOOOOL
Yes I do. The best qualities of my mother.
I only have one mother. I dont want another one. They have been nothing like my mother
i can honestly say no...of ocurse there will be some attributes they share with my mom but i dont go around looking for another version of my mom to date
Interesting...I wonder if it has to do with a man being a "mama's boy" that he wants to have his woman to have the same attributes as his mother...
And I'm not talking about in an incestuous way...
For example: Attitude and beliefs
Not exactly looking like your mother...(that may be a bit creepy)
Not a fan of mama's boys
I love men who love their mother's...but I do not want to be compared to anyone's mother....Or feel like I have to compete with a guy's mother.
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