1) On this site, everybody's opinion is valid. 2) Everybody is not going to agree with your opinion. 3) It's ok to let a person have the last word when there is not meeting of the minds. 4) If you can't handle chat, then you shouldn't be in it. 5) We are not here to tell you what to do, we get enough of that in society. But we are not babysitters either, and we won't babysit you. 6) This site was created by us, for us. Please have have a modicum of respect for the effort that gave you something for, and about you. 7) Please follow the rules and respect your fellow members. We are not the enemy......we are a black fam!!! Enki Peace!