Okay this may seem like a odd question, but do you think that couples that have a wide age gap, no matter who is older... Do you think they can be friends as well as couples or is it just a sex/money arrangement. I was noticing that older men use younger women as trophies and older women use younger men for sex. Can they be best friends? What would they possibly have in common? Y'all's perspectives please... Especially the family that has lived this type of lifestyle. Examples would be enlightening.