Why not announce it to the whole world? What are you ashamed of? I know some cats prefer to keep things confidential so they can have something on the side.DA BROTHER LOVE said:I want you to ask yourself this question like you have never asked yourself before: Why do people get married?
I have reason to believe that marriage is the same kind of principle as having a high school reunion. The only reason people do it is to show off. I mean seriously, if you find someone that you feel that you care about, and you want to spend the rest of your life with them, then just spend the rest of your life with them. keep it to yourself. Why is it necessary to announce it to the whole world? The whole hype of it reminds me of Christmas, where the event actually becomes bigger than the reason behind it. People get all obsessed with **** that has nothing to do with the meaning for the whole ceremony... its all about catering to women... I dont even think that men even give a **** about it so much American propaganda wasnt placed behind it...
Sure you can have the symbol without the substancer but that is no reason to discard the symbol. Our ancestors in Africa understood the importance of symbol and ritual. It's the white man who though he tried to borrow these things from us has no real understanding or appreciation of it and is more than eager to discard it.
This idea that marriage is all about the woman has no scientific basis. Staistics show that married men live longer than single men or men who just shack up but single women live longer than married women, so it's not like we're doing ourselves a big favor when we agree to marry a man.