Black Relationships : Marriage: Would you consider a mutual agreement of inviting a 3rd person in your bed Adultery?

[frankster]

who were the children? they would be messed up.

Yep! they certainly were.
One of then tried to kill his own son.

 

[IntuitioninMD_2]

Only if you want to give your husband away to another. Our spouses should be cherished not shared.

If my husband wanted to share me with another person it would be over.

Real men can never get over watching his wife have sex with another person. Not if they really love you. Asking for someone else to be part of the marital relationship is another way to say 'I am just not that in to you'.

But, that is just my opinion.