It happens all te time. If we try to avoid this the issues and problems assciated with relationships, epecially male-female relationships among Africans, the issues and problesm coming looking for you. They want know if you are the problem when in reality they are the problem which is why we tried to avoid tem in the first place. It is kind of crazy. And, it all boils down to crazy people. As I see it, after so many bad and failed experiences trying to deal with such carziness over so many years ad decades, the problem is largely if not wholly derived from ignorance. And, when we combine ignorance with the arroance that seems to be norm everywhere we fid Americans, well then, we have a real problem. I know that I am being boycotted. It is just another sorry attempt to intimidate and otherwise coerce me to something that I am against right down to the whiteness of my bones. How, can anyone boycoytt me when it is I who have tried to avoid this issue. I have deliberately and seriously tried to stay away from thsi discussion. But, those who boycott me keep coming after me: "what about your ex-wife". Do you like Arab women? Are you gay? Jeusus is GOD which tranlslate into the white man is GOD. You name it. Even Muslims think I must prefer an African Christian to a white Muslimah. That is just crazy. Anyhow, here it is folks. You want to know why I cannot stand African Christian women? Just hang for a moment and i will try to explain.