Black Men : manhood questions

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  1. jamesfrmphilly

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    :10500:we all should be able to agree or disagree without having our manhood called into question shouldn't we?
     
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    Certainly.

    But some people are insecure in their own sexuality and their incessant questioning the sexuality of others is indicative of their own negative self-concept and "manhood" issue.

    Kinda like the so-called "Napoleon Complex".
     
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    that's funny cause here in Brooklyn manhood is determined by a man who is secure enough to speak to some one toe to toe

    debate toe to toe

    and speak directly rather then make insinuating
    COY

    remarks when a person is not there or disapear into a hall way when they get back or just run away



    You dont know any one like that do you:em0200:
     
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    dude.....

    i hung out along flatbush ave for a minute in my day. i saw no one going "toe to toe", i saw people going about their business.
    this is a message board, it is not real life. please grow up. please.
     
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    James - Every time I randomly visit Destee, you make me laugh. You don't even have to try, lol.

    You get yourself into more trouble....:court: :geek::geek:
     
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    i mean why can't we all just agree or disagree? it ain't that deep.
     
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    Yes, but you know how heated it can get sometimes. We both have been both victim and initiator sometimes. Whether inferred or implied















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    This is what I refer to

    :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:














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    With sraight up man to man conversation, when men

    poke thier tongues out

    and sas

    and gnagn gnagny gnagn gnahhhh kind of responses

    then how would one describe such behavior in civil parlance or correct dialectics:10500:
     
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    Its a "psychosis".

    In Freudian psychology, psychological projection or projection bias is a psychological defense mechanism where a person unconsciously denies their own attributes, thoughts, and emotions, which are then ascribed to the outside world, such as to the weather, or to other people. Thus, it involves imagining or projecting that others have those feelings.

    Projection reduces anxiety by allowing the expression of the unwanted unconscious impulses or desires without letting the conscious mind recognize them.

    An example of this behavior might be blaming another for self failure. The mind may avoid the discomfort of consciously admitting personal faults by keeping those feelings unconscious, and redirect their libidinal satisfaction by attaching, or "projecting," those same faults onto another.
     
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