love is whatever YOU love... and NOBODY can tell YOU any different. think over that... when you think of the definition of love. love is what makes you do what you do... if you hate... you can love to hate. the love that you have can never be defined by someone else or explained by someone else. i love what i am thinking right now... can anybody tell me what i am going to write next... on another thread... another post... by the time you blink your eye... and another beat of your heart... if it works you love it. love is... love... whatever you love... and not by what somebody else can say what love is for you. if a man designs a intelligence test... and another mans takes the test... and then he fails the test as it is measured by the man who designs the test... does that make the man who takes the test less intelligent than the man who designed the test for the man to take? love?