Believe it, Love is in his blood! Unfortunately, I do not speak of men. I speak of one whose blood dripped like water and ran down his body in dark murky red rivers until his head hung like the sunset on the horizon as he was pierced naked to the cross. I speak of one, who died for us that we might have everlasting life. This man I speak of is Jesus. A man who gave birth to love through his death because he so loved the world. Yet, in these trying times where divorce runs as rampant and as deadly to relationships as small pox did in the past it is hard to imagine that a love so deep, powerful and beautiful can exist on Earth. Nevertheless, it’s possible and real! Often we wonder why we suffer countless heart breaks to find pure love in our relationships. It’s because we’ve overlooked one thing. That is the search for love is not external, but it is internal. Love starts within you. How does love start? “For God is Love,” says the Bible. Thus God is the birthplace of love and where love begins because he created love. Therefore, the seeds of love are planted in us if we truly love God first. Unlike God, men naturally do not have love in their blood because men are born in sin. The moment we arrive into this world, we are washed in the sins of our mother and father and wrapped in a sinful flesh. It is up to a man to find love through his heart because he can never find true love through his flesh because it is cursed. Moreover, for him to possess love in his heart he too must seek God first. What happens when a man doesn’t seek God first? Well this is the answer to why men cheat in relationships. Without God a man is in grave danger and vulnerable to the desires of his flesh. What do I mean? Well if you haven’t noticed this world is a battle of principalities an ancient war of Good versus Evil. Every waking moment is a struggle. Good often wants to prevail but there are Evil principalities, the things that go bump in the night, that seek to destroy us daily. A man cheats on a woman because he has strayed far from God and not letting him dwell within his heart. Apart from God’s love man alone cannot withstand the evils that will surely come his way when faced with evil persuasion he will listen to his flesh instead of listening to God in his heart. Think about it! Can a man slay Satan? No! Even the Bible says that God alone will ultimately defeat Satan and cast his into the lake of fire. Hence, a man must have God in his heart to resist the evil temptation of cheating. Again, without God he is doomed to cheat because he has no unconditional foundation of love on which to stand strong and fight Satan’s attacks off. Of course with all the beautiful women in this world Satan is very similar to a Sentinel on the blockbuster movie the Matrix. At any second he can use any woman against a man. Remember the woman in the red dress in the movie well Satan can use her as his weapon to strike down a man by forcing him to look and think lustfully. Which leads to him following through on those thoughts and cheating. I believe the Bible says it well in that line that screams, “As a man thinketh in his heart, So is he.” However, if God dwells within that same man’s heart then Satan cannot stand against him because he has strong resistance just as God did when he was tempted in the wilderness by Satan countless times. I myself can attest to the validity every word that I have just written. Recently, I’ve committed my self to a beautiful woman and we have given birth to an amazing relationship. It seems just when things are getting good and ripe that’s when Satan lashes out at a man. It happened at the En-mark Gas station last Thursday when a voluptuous female pulled up to the pump across from mine. Within seconds the thoughts began to invade my head to look and even lust. As I finished pumping my gas I went to pay for it and on my return trip to my car there she was still propped up against her car in attire hotter than the temperature that day. Without a doubt I had a clear and second chance to look and even approach her. But a voice simply said, “Keep walking son!” I know now that was God saying to me that you’re in love don’t be foolish. After holding my woman tight in my arms on the park bench the day afterwards I realize that without accepting God in my heart I would have made the worst mistake of my life by going for that other woman. What I have with Lepaige is amazing and she returns my love ten fold whereas the other woman could have cared less. Overall, I believe that God has predestined a great love for all men if we let him dwell in our hearts everyday. I know this is the key for us brothers to transform our relationships into spiritual ones. That way we can share God’s love in us with our women and appreciate them even more. I urge you to lets stop cheating and letting Satan prevail in destroying our relationships from fully blossoming into something incredible. Yes, brothers it is time to open up your heart to God and experience his love unconditionally. The love that was by founded bleeding on the cross so that we might have a chance to experience the depths of love. A love so deep that one man was willing to die for love. We may never find the courage to die for love but at least we can make a change. Let our God know he didn’t die in vain by letting his love live in each of us.