Discussion in 'Black People Open Forum' started by legit-writer, Apr 18, 2013.
is it possible to lust someone that you also love?
what does "lust someone" mean?
Yes, it's possible.
Lust is merely a strong desire, not necessarily to be with the person, but just to have them; while loving them is to be with them and to want for their betterment! It's always looking out for them, and not turning them aside. Lust focuses on the superficial of it all, things after the body, while love goes deeper, much deeper to the Spirit.
I've done it before, and hated that so. To me, it was just unnecessary. I knew there was love there, but the feeling of lust was always a bother, a distraction even. Nevertheless, that can be handled.
LOL, she's asking can you lust after a person and still love them also, from what I'm reading.
I've heard it used both ways, that is, lust after someone or lust someone(to play off of love someone like falling in lust).
Put me down for one of each.
not only is it possible, that's the way it should be. you should lust after the person you claim to love. in fact, that is the only person you should be lusting after. every time you see that person, you should want to be with that person (within reason)...that excitement about that person should be there...always.
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