Black Relationships : Like Mama or Not

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  1. MANASIAC

    MANASIAC Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Hey Fellas. Do you tend to date women like your mom or not?

    Me, well I usually date women that are not like my mother, they share a few traits, but are usual opposites.
     
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    i never cross nor place another woman in the foot print of my mother
    i look at her for who she is and what she seem to be as a dating mate
    within the means of a relationship , i can't date my mother !.
     
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    Aww, shoot. I keep finding men who say that they want some quiet, humble, submissive little church girl and their mothers are the loudest, most opinionated, bossiest heathens around. :laugh: I say that in jest because, simply put, a man's mother is usually his first model of a woman.
     
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    I love my women for who she is not because she is like my mother.
     
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    It's weird.....
    Although I find myself drawn to women like my mother, I go out of my way to avoid them.

    I guess I'm afraid of getting to attached.



    I don't know about other men.....but even as adults me and my brothers were stright up FOOLS around our mother.
    No matter what you been through, being around "mamma" just relaxes you and takes you back home.

    I'd turn back into a little kid and start talking and acting all funny. :ilu:


    I guess I'm afraid that if I get too comfortable around that type of woman, I'd lose my cool and start acting goofy.
     
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    There ain't nothing wrong with that- just don't start farting and whatnot and you'll be alright!.
     
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    blkbeauty New Member MEMBER

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    Well in my situation I am dating a man who wants me to be like his mother and I am the complete opposite. Now I feel like his mother and I are playing competition - "the battle of good and evil"
     
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    There ain't nothing wrong with that- just don't start farting and whatnot and you'll be alright!.
    How else can I show a woman I really love her unless I get a little loose and comfortable every once and a while?
     
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