Hey Family I a situation That I would like to Share .I finnaly Filed Child Support For my Son Hes Two years old . I told His Farther aka sperm donor I did so .....That was my mistake I should Have kept it to myself ...I honestly fooles myself into thinking that he would not have a problem with it .. He showed me better than that ...He does have a problem with it ..He told me that if i cared for my son and If i didnt want to see him hurt that I should Cancel The Case . He told me that filing on him was like telling him that i wanted his mother dead , what ever that means .He feels like im trying to take his life and his freedon away from him .He told me that he does not want to work and in turn he does not want to go to jail ..He feels that a sentenced him to jail .Its been two years and no support from this man ..but doing that conversation he told me that I should have contacted him if i need anything ..Its been two years and nothing so whats changed? Nothing He is sorry and he does not intend on ever supported this child .He made this baby but he wont see this child through life .How is that caring ? He threatend me and told me that if I did not want any problems with him that I should cancel .I Later told him that i did not file , that i had gotten the papers but I had not sighned and that i wouldnt .I lied .I fear this man to an extent , but If I am forced to then I will protect my kids first and then myself .I know that he has a vilent history and i made the mistake of telling him this in the first place .I refuse to struggle anymore I will have nothing else to do with this man ever it doesnt matter what I will nevr associate myself or my son with this man ever again .He does currently have my son as i write this .The bottom line is he doesnt want to work to support his son , If he could just keep his mind focused on the better ment of his child I think that he would get the the stress of working a nine to five .That now is not for me to worry about anymore , I will go and get my son and live my life with out worrying about wheteher my son has a Father or not .Hes done good this far .We will continue to do great from this point on . God knows that they are all i have and to please not take them from me .I'll do better .I will .Anyway I know I have family with you all so please do me a favor and pray for my family and me . Ill do the same for all of you . Blessing to you and much love and to all the fathers who are doing there job I give you my deepest respect and To all the single mothers I feel your struggle and i hear your pain beacuse its mine too .