Black People : Let's make a Deal

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  1. Ralfa'il

    Ralfa'il Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Brutha Samurai,

    For the sake of peace in the community I propose we make a treaty between ourselves initiated by a 2 week vow of verbal separation.

    So for the rest of the month of May I don't say anthing to or about you concerning your posts, and you don't say anything to or about me concerning mine.

    This will begin immediately after you agree to it.

    After that we'll see where the spirit leads us.



    Do you accept the terms of this treaty?
     
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    Ralfa'il Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    All we need is for a Moderator to "notarize" this treaty. :picture:
     
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    Ralfa'il Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Yes......we intend to separate the Peace-Makers from the Peace-Breakers.


    But your lack of response is very telling of your intentions.
     
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    Brother Ralfa'il ... this is very honorable of you.

    I'm not a Moderator, but i'm a Notary ... in a cyber sorta way ... :)

    After making this great gesture to our Brother and the Family ... let's at least give him time to respond ... before counting the words he has yet to say.

    Yeah ... good deal.

    You have a great Spirit Brother Ralfa'il and your effort to maintain our peace does not go unnoticed.

    Thank you.

    :heart:

    Destee
     
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    Destee

    Respect.

    Thanx for your response sis.


    I really didn't mind, but so many people were complaining about our behavior I decided that this would be the best solution for the time being.



    Uh....

    I'm sort of...well...VERY perplexed right now.

    Maybe I haven't paid enough attention to my surroundings but I could have sworn you were a moderator one time.

    How did you go from being the owner and operator of this site to not even a moderator anymore?
     
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    Sista Destee, I love you and all that you do, but there is great reason that I've chosen not to allow myself to be baited by this.

    Sincerity is a character trait that is established by initiative.

    I'm choosing not to allow myself to be pigeon-holed into an "agreement", in which the instigator (no pun) had never kept such a "deal" before (this is not his first time doing something like this)......

    If he were in any fashion sincere, he would have sought to rectify any "issues" that we might have in private.

    My e-mail address is posted in more than one thread in this site; Yet my in-box is empty, as far as this brother's address is concerned.

    There are ways of truly handling situations, aside from putting on a public show.

    I have no problems addressing such issues, but NOT with someone who is not the least bit sincere.

    I do however, apologize for the disruptions that my participation in this spectacle may have caused.


    PEACE
     
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    Brothas on a side note...PERSONALLY...most prolly wouldnt mind you two duking it out BUT

    i think it is that BETTER is expected from the both of you because after reading many of your posts

    it is clear you both are above all the :argue: :read: :)
     
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    Dess and Trini

    As you can see....

    Our dear brutha Sam doesn't want to agree to this peace treaty initiated by a 2 week vow of verbal separation.

    He doesn't want peace.

    He doesn't want unity.

    He wants and excuse to keep up the mele. :whip:

    ...then hide behind sweet talk and poetic language to hide his intentioins.



    Well......atleast you can NOW see who's responsible for the rukus being created among us.





    Destee:

    I'm still trying to figure out how you ended up becoming a mortal just like us!

    I could have swore you had a more authoritative position on this site.
     
  9. Destee

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    That's what happens when you're not careful Brother Ralfa'il !!!

    You are so correct ... how did they kick me off the Moderate'n Team !!!!??? :getout:

    They're ruthless !!! :)

    They be tell'n me ... Destee Move! Gett Outta Da Way! We can handle this! You're always jump'n in, before we get a chance to even breathe! Dang Destee MOVE!

    * sigh *

    gotta luv 'em! :wink:

    :heart:

    Destee
     
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    Brother SAMURAI ... i appreciate your love, thank you for it, and want you to know that i have the same love for you.

    You're certainly entitled to receive Brother Ralfa'il's gesture in the manner that you wish. I won't complain about that at all. I'm sure you feel justified in doing what you do, and the wonderful thing about this community, is that for the most part ... we all get to do that.

    It's my hope though, since you are aware of the "tension" between you, that you will avoid and/or ignore his posts, for the sake of the peace in the community.

    I know it's not always easy, but if you'll please try, that would be great.

    Much Love and Peace.

    :heart:

    Destee
     
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