Black Entertainment : Lamars rules of marriage

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  1. ellen covington

    ellen covington Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Tmz release a statement with the rules of marriage according to Lamar. Are these rules reasonable or do they present the symptoms of other unresolved problems.







    Sherri and Lamar Sally signed a prenup before they got hitched in 2011. We're told at some point after the wedding, Lamar wanted an amendment to the prenup, which included the following:

    -- "I respect my husband's opinions and recognize him as the leader of our home. I will always speak well of my husband."

    -- "I enjoy having sex with my husband. I crave intimacy with him and want to be uninhibited and free in our lovemaking."

    -- "MY BODY IS IMPORTANT TO ME. I STRIVE TO MAINTAIN A HEALTHY BODY WEIGHT AND EXERCISE AT LEAST THREE TIMES A WEEK." (HIS emphasis)

    -- "It is my joy to submit to my husband as a way to honor God."




    From TMZ.com
     
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    Sal, as Sherri calls him, seems to have some issues. Namely the one calked jealouse. Who would rewrite a prenup to include such ridiculous requests!
    I wouldn't.
     
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    You think he is jealous of her? He probably is and mentally unstable. For a man to want a woman to serve him in the name of god or what ever it sounds as if he is insecure. He wants to be the leader of the household. Someone needs to define what being the leader of the household is. Does that mean making decisions financially or what bc if she was such a bad mom and he is is control of decisions why would he choose to have a baby with her then talking bout uninhibited in the bedroom Please.
     
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    Good questions! He is jealous and insecure... Unless, Sherri has set the rules at the house, where she has,the last word. I hesrd that he thinks she,works to much and her ex- husband is suing
    for full custody of Jeffrey stating the same thing. That hearing is on May 21st. Sal probably wants her to follow verbatim the words in the Bible. This a new day and Sherri was taking care of Jeffery and his needs before Sal.
    Maybe its a money issue, you think?
     
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    I am not Christian myself but if he expects her to follow the words of the bible, he should to. A man that does not work, does not eat. He made 9000. If you work full time even a min wage you make more than that. If he is only working 3 days a week and she works full time to maintain the lifestyle what would be wrong with him taking care of the kid. She such a bad mom, she is the bread winner why cant he teach the boy to tie his shoes or communicate properly.
     
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    wanting that is one thing.. trying to put it in contract form tells me dude.. and dudette are not all there.
     
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    Do you think that those are acceptable to want?
     
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    For real, he only makes $9000 is that a year?
     
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    to be respected.. to lead his family.. to have a healthy sexual relationship.. and to have his wife prioritize her physical condition...

    of course it's reasonable to want those things.

    The larger question is
    : is he prepared to do all of things it would take to make those wants come to fruition? Of course the answer is, 'no he's not'.. because.. if he was, then he wouldn't need a contract to force the other person to act as if he is.
     
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