so if a woman comes to yr room you are free to rape her and it's her own fault ???
This is a very complex situation ranging from an underage girl "especially band groupies" being enticed into a grown mans hotel room, house, back seat of his car or wherever to women who invite themselves with agendas setting men up. If a man has honorable intentions then he wouldn't mind a friend coming along. Seriously though It's 2020 and this stuff shouldn't be happening anymore.
Unfortunately there are still girls that actually believe that if a guy gets them pregnant by choice or accident he will be beholden to them and their unborn child. This is the same mindset that some guys feel that once he and a girl makes love that she belongs only to him. Sometimes in the end prisons and cemeteries can attest to the disastrous results of this skewed mindset.