I love confidence, and a black man who is proud of who he is. I love dark skin and that's what I'm generally attracted to, but I also know some very sweet looking light skinned men. I've read much about thugs in this forum-I don't mind a man with corn rows, but I'm not into the "gangster" type. Some men wear their pants slightly loose and are all into the Nike, Fila, Sean Jean, Fubu but still work and take care. No selling drugs or "scrub" types. Someone with morals. Really all he has to be is a sweet guy, no matter what he looks like, whether he's educated or not, or whether he makes minimun wage or has a six figure income. Arogant men are a turn-off for me.