- Feb 26, 2013
Welcome to Destee!I'm Asian-American, and I adore black men. Despite bad things I hear about them, or bad experiences, I never give up on black men. I still believe there are GOOD black men out there. In fact I know some black men who are good sons, fathers, brothers, husbands, etc...
Here are some things that I turn me OFF completely:
1. This is important, so I put it first.
Black men who are WHITEWASH! Proud to be black please, love your skin color and your people please. DO NOT open that smart mouth with me, and tell me how superior White is. Men like this are disgrace to your community, and I look Down on you.
2. Smoke weed, do marijuana, lazy men who purposely stay home smoke weed all day, and thinks it COOL. Key point here, 'purposely' being lazy, at least make an effort find a job please.
3. Having many baby mama, and children, yet NOT married to any of them. This show that he have NO responsiblity to his own offspring, and to the kid's mothers.
4. Men that have too much "manhood," those who keep demanding women to let them "Be The Man". Those men that CAN'T even accept 50/50 on dates, CAN'T even stand their lady to be financial independent.
Yeah, if he smokes weed, he shouldn't talk to me. That's a major turn off.