Black Relationships : Ladies: What is your definition of a "nice guy"?

I Love It When Women Speak Out & Speak The Truth. Let Our Voices Be Heard.

Men, For Centuries Chose What We Liked, Loved & Who We Were To Be. Now We Have The Space To Claim Our Minds, Bodies & Desires.

It Is Sad When A Women Extends Her Power & Only An "Alpha" (Not My Favorite Term) Or "A" Personality Can See It.

To, As A Woman, Who Is Only Seeking Requited Love & Aspiration, Feel Like Our Preferences Are Somehow An Offense To A Man Who Chooses To Believe He Is Nice Enough Rather Then To Entice Us With Who He Can Be, Makes My Stomach Turn Today.

I Was In A Relationship With A "Nice Guy" Because I Was Still Ignorant To The Fact They AREN'T Nice... They Just Found An Excuse That They Believe Works.

At The End Of The Day... We DO Want A Nice... MAN. A Man That Knows When To Be Nice, When To Be Rough & When To Stand Up.

Not To Be Stood Up To Or Guilted Into Affection & Long Term Wastes Of Time, Energy & Finances.

We Want To See You Grow & We Want To See You At Your Best Self. Nice Is Sometimes Just As Nasty As Nasty. Not In The Pleasureable Nasty Way.

WOMAN UP SISTERS.

MAN UP BROTHERS.

WE ARE THE WAY.

SHLUM | PEACE & GRACES :love:
 
This question is different for different women.
For me, I'd like a Christian man, a man who reads, one who has an interest in history, likes to travel, has a sense of humor, and a nice smile with some sexy soup coolers are a plus. I'd like a man with whom we can stretch/strengthen each other, support,/encourage each other. Proverbs 27:17 KJV: Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.
Not possessive, jealous or verbally/physically abusive. (Don't put your hands on me. If you do, you betta kill me. If you don't kill me, I will kill you.) Secure in himself. Economically stable. No warrants. No addiction issues. Not on probation or parole. No mental illness.

Physically, can't be skinny or light-skinned....no green eyes. Blackity-Black-Black.


The Lord is my Shephard and He know what I want.
 
....Also, for women of a certain age (like me), there are just some things I will and will not tolerate.
I'm too old for games and tests. If you don't trust me, keep it moving. I'm not the woman for you. (And you're not the man for me.)
At my age, men my age or older should be past the player stage. If I've shown you that I'm a good woman, treat/respect me accordingly. If not, move outta the way for the man who will.

Aretha told ya, "
If you wanna do right (Do right, do right)
All day (Do right, do right) Woman (Woman)
You've gotta be a do-right (Do-right, do-right)
All night man (Do right, do right)
(Man)..."
 
It was a question posed to women, *in the women's forum*. Why is it necessary to have a man's input on what a woman defines a nice guy to be?

Edit: *In relation

60% to 80% of children today are born OOW. Thus, many don't want a nice guy



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