Black Relationships : Ladies: What is your definition of a "nice guy"?

I know I'm not the only one who is tired of hearing that "nice guys finish last", and that women only want jerks.

So what is a "nice guy", ladies? What are the traits, personality, and/or characteristics?


Hi again Sister @MsInterpret ... @Kemetstry is thinking about you ... he brought these great threads back up! :toast1:

To answer your question, I'd consider him a nice guy if he doesn't bring me harm.

Not to suggest that I don't care if he brings harm to others, I just probably would not know about that.

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Destee
 
Here is what I shared to my oldest daughter

Get a man who can do most of the following (hopefully all):

- Teaches you how to cook
- Shows you how to get your credit right
- Supports your aspirations
- Makes love to you like you’re the only one he’s ever LOVED
- Supports his family no matter what
- Is there for you in sickness and health
- Inspires you to do better
- Is a leader in life
- Willing to show his soft side
- Is a positive example to anyone who comes into his life
- Is grounded in his mind, body and spirit
- Is loyal to those who love him
- Humble in his actions
- Has mentally sound judgment
- Never speaks down on himself or others
- Can turn a dollar into $100
- Keeps a clean and kept appearance
- Has fruitful hobbies
- Willing and accepting of your opinions and respects your feelings
- Listens with the intention of learning
- Always seeking growth and development
- Won’t allow anyone to dog walk him

And you should reciprocate!

What else?
 
Here is what I shared to my oldest daughter

Get a man who can do most of the following (hopefully all):

- Teaches you how to cook
- Shows you how to get your credit right
- Supports your aspirations
- Makes love to you like you’re the only one he’s ever LOVED
- Supports his family no matter what
- Is there for you in sickness and health
- Inspires you to do better
- Is a leader in life
- Willing to show his soft side
- Is a positive example to anyone who comes into his life
- Is grounded in his mind, body and spirit
- Is loyal to those who love him
- Humble in his actions
- Has mentally sound judgment
- Never speaks down on himself or others
- Can turn a dollar into $100
- Keeps a clean and kept appearance
- Has fruitful hobbies
- Willing and accepting of your opinions and respects your feelings
- Listens with the intention of learning
- Always seeking growth and development
- Won’t allow anyone to dog walk him

And you should reciprocate!

What else?


I've seen videos of females calling 'nice guys' lames




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I've seen videos of females calling 'nice guys' lames




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I’m married to a “nice guy”.

I remember when he hit me up and I looked at him like square. But said I needed a change.

We’ve been married 9 years, been together 10. Big *** house and a child. He’s been my ride or die and vice versa.
 
I’m married to a “nice guy”.

I remember when he hit me up and I looked at him like square. But said I needed a change.

We’ve been married 9 years, been together 10. Big *** house and a child. He’s been my ride or die and vice versa.


Wait!??! Weren't you single when you 1st came in? Did you get married recently? You dumped me?!!?




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