Black Relationships : Ladies: What is your definition of a "nice guy"?

[jamesfrmphilly]

I know, right? I was wonderin' "Handle it!?" It ain't a bumpy ride to have a nice guy, but a smooth one indeed.

some sisters have difficulty being treated nice.

 

[Kadijah]

I know, right? I was wonderin' "Handle it!?" It ain't a bumpy ride to have a nice guy, but a smooth one indeed.

I know! I mean, I don't care what anyone says, I don't consider a doormat (like the guy on Dr. Phil) to be a nice guy. Nice guys are like nice people - they're nice because they WANT to be nice, not because they have to, or being agreeable is the only way they know how to get along. And I certainly don't consider the plumber.... or something like that.... to be a nice guy, because nice guys don't try to make prostitutes of my mother's daughter!

 

[jamesfrmphilly]

I know! I mean, I don't care what anyone says, I don't consider a doormat (like the guy on Dr. Phil) to a nice guy. Nice guys are like nice people - they're nice because they WANT to be nice, not because they have to, or being agreeable is the only way they know how to get along. And I certainly don't consider the plumber.... or something like that.... to be a nice guy, because nice guys don't try to make prostitutes of my mother's daughter!

and here we go wit the horror stories again…..

 

[Kadijah]

and here we go wit the horror stories again…..

What 'horror' stories?

 

[jamesfrmphilly]

What 'horror' stories?

you talking about cats who are NOT nice.

have you ever met a nice guy? (besides me)
what is your definition of a nice brother?
would you like to have a nice guy in your life?
i hope you already do.