Good morning ladies, I have a serious question to ask. My hair has been stressing me lately. It is long, black and sliky (about shoulder length) but I have serious "friz" issues. I keep it in braids all the time, but the braids get frizzy after one week, and my hair always curls up at the tips. My question is, if I want to be able to control my hair should I think about using a relaxer? Would those chemicals end up ruining my hair!? Thats my biggest concern. Ladies give me some of you expertise please.