Black Relationships : LADIES: A Question - do you view romance in a fairy tale / harlequin novel kinda way?

Kemetstry

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That's you. Because if you had bothered to read this thread, you would have discovered over half did view romance in those terms. Those number matched those on the other site as well.

Dear, men never have confused romance with love. And anyone that told you we confused sex with love lied to you. :lol: Your comments show, you know very little about men.

Today, most guys don't take sister out to wine and dine. That is an old school passé notion.

But this is off topic





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That's you. Because if you had bothered to read this thread, you would have discovered over half did view romance in those terms. Those number matched those on the other site as well.

Dear, men never have confused romance with love. And anyone that told you we confused sex with love lied to you. :lol: Your comments show, you know very little about men.

Today, most guys don't take sister out to wine and dine. That is an old school passé notion.

But this is off topic


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So tell me Kem what is the reason they take the sisters out....if it is not to wine and dine, maybe it is sumting else.

I would say that you know very little about women...Do you have a woman in your life:lol:
 

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dunwiddat said:


Kem Romance has not changed in a thousand years...Greek women still sit all night listening to a lyre.


Romance is not love. I never thought of a prince charming. Even as a teenager, the Mills and Boon books never fascinated me...once you read one you read them all.

Men confuse romance with love the same way they confuse sex with love. I believe that men don't even understand intimacy. Men think with what is between their zippers. They have a motive and the motive is to get between the sheets.

How many men do you know would take a woman out dine and dance her without think ing of the horizontal dance. Even the terms in the sexual arena a man seems to be saying I want to do something with you. I WANT TO MAKE LOVE TO YOU:lol:not I LOVE YOU. Sex is the motive. Today men have a kind of performance level thinking. Theybelieve that they must perform...I am wondering why the great increase in sexually enhancing drugs. Intimacy can include sex but intimacy does have to be sex. Men think way differently about this topic than women, and that is because a man can trick a woman into thinking he loves here when in reality all he wants is the poonanami. I have observed enough to come to this conclusion.

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Some here might not even know what to do wid a woman.:lol:
 

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Some of the men here don't like women; some come off as "fearing" women.... and that's really disturbing because you HATE what you fear. Which accounts for the haterade posts directed at women, in general, all across the forum, IMHO.
 

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[QUOTE="Kadijah, post: 891646, member: 35973"]Some of the men here don't like women; some come off as "fearing" women.... and that's really disturbing because you HATE what you fear. Which accounts for the haterade posts directed at women, in general, all across the forum, IMHO.[/QUOTE]

Wonder why...uhhm:(
 

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So tell me Kem what is the reason they take the sisters out....if it is not to wine and dine, maybe it is sumting else.

I would say that you know very little about women...Do you have a woman in your life:lol:


Even if I knew you were 'the one' when they 1st met you, they still want sumting else. :lol:

I didn't make any erroneous assumptions about them did I?





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Some of the men here don't like women; some come off as "fearing" women.... and that's really disturbing because you HATE what you fear. Which accounts for the haterade posts directed at women, in general, all across the forum, IMHO.


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Not agreeing with you isn't hatred
and you're :offtopic:





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