Black Relationships : Lack Of Black Love In The Media

[SAMURAI36]

Thank you both for responding.

That's what i thot too Deleted member 49553 ... that it appeared that your life was the topic ... and some insulting words were said ... but if you don't want to report them ... you don't have to ... and i'll overlook them this time too ... but they do not have to be overlooked always ... there is a REPORT link under every post ... please click it and send me a message if you think you're being called out of your name, or you (your life) is being made the topic, thus personalizing the discussions ... those are all rule violations and will be stopped.

One's life can only be the topic of discussion, if one introduces their life as a subject of discussion.

However, I maintain, that I have called NO ONE a single name here, nor have I committed any personal attacks. And I would challenge anyone to QUOTE where I have done anything of the sort.

SAMURAI36 ... you've always been kinda rough, brash, difficult ...

Not the words I would use to describe myself, but FWIW, the feeling is mutual. However, I make no qualms or apologies about my persona; I like who/how I am, & apparently others do too, based on the responses & interactions Ive had, & otherwise I wouldnt have been invited to return.

though we've done pretty good this time around ... so far ... but i'm old now and i can't take the same stuff i took years gone by ... i aint got the same wind ... so i'm gonna stop it way before it gets there ... it's a different day ... if you hadn't noticed already ... so please ... tone the energy down some ... recognize that it aint all about you and what you think is right or proper ... don't go so far as to call folk names, personalize the discussions, etc. ... 'cause i can't take it.

no harm no foul ... this time

Thank You Both Again



Destee

As Ive stated, not once have I done any of the things that you are loosely attempting to accuse me of here. In fact, & I think many others here will agree, that I've been quite careful in my wordings, so as to avoid such accusations.

Beyond that, however, it sounds as though it's being implied that we are no allowed to have debates of any sort, in the interest of getting along. Is this in fact the case?

 

[Destee]

One's life can only be the topic of discussion, if one introduces their life as a subject of discussion.

However, I maintain, that I have called NO ONE a single name here, nor have I committed any personal attacks. And I would challenge anyone to QUOTE where I have done anything of the sort.

Not the words I would use to describe myself, but FWIW, the feeling is mutual. However, I make no qualms or apologies about my persona; I like who/how I am, & apparently others do too, based on the responses & interactions Ive had, & otherwise I wouldnt have been invited to return.

As Ive stated, not once have I done any of the things that you are loosely attempting to accuse me of here. In fact, & I think many others here will agree, that I've been quite careful in my wordings, so as to avoid such accusations.

Beyond that, however, it sounds as though it's being implied that we are no allowed to have debates of any sort, in the interest of getting along. Is this in fact the case?

You've been banned from 2 threads already, and you've only been back 5 minutes.

You were in the violation zone when you last left, and you come right back to it.

I don't care who agrees with you ... or disagrees with me ... it's not their decision.

Many debate / discuss here everyday, if you can't, leave and go where you can.



Destee

 

[SAMURAI36]

You've been banned from 2 threads already, and you've only been back 5 minutes.

What "2 threads" have I been banned from? I'm only aware of one.

You were in the violation zone when you last left, and you come right back to it.

Looks like not much has changed on both parts, yes?

I don't care who agrees with you ... or disagrees with me ... it's not their decision.

Not sure why this is being mentioned, as I said nothing about "agreeing or disagreeing".

Many debate / discuss here everyday, if you can't, leave and go where you can.

I'm obviously not the one with an issue with my debating capacity.

 

[Destee]

What "2 threads" have I been banned from? I'm only aware of one.

Looks like not much has changed on both parts, yes?

Not sure why this is being mentioned, as I said nothing about "agreeing or disagreeing".

I'm obviously not the one with an issue with my debating capacity.

I'm not answering any questions ... i'm not going down this road with you.

Everything has been done out in the open, and if you aint seen it ... oh well.

I aint doin all this back and forth with you ... as if we aint did it all before.

Your best bet is to quit talking to me and abide by our rules ... if you wanna stay.



Destee

 

[SAMURAI36]

I'm not answering any questions ... i'm not going down this road with you.

Everything has been done out in the open, and if you aint seen it ... oh well.

I aint doin all this back and forth with you ... as if we aint did it all before.

Your best bet is to quit talking to me and abide by our rules ... if you wanna stay.



Destee

You seem to have me mixed up with someone that you might have given birth to... I'm not that person.

I have a mother already, and she A) has already RIP'd, and B) was not named Destee.

For your talk of "getting old", you're not that much older than me. If you want respect, then you need to give it in return.

As far as your rules, I have been following them to the best of my ability. But for all your preaching of the "rules", it's ironic that you don't follow them yourself.

So ban me, don't ban me, it makes no difference to me. Clearly this place needs me more than I need it, otherwise I wouldn't have been asked to come back. It surely wasn't the other way around.

I was doing quite fine all these YEARS without Destee (both the site and the woman), in which BTW, I left of my own volition, for these very same reasons, and I think I'll be okay without both again.