Keys to Reducing Violence and Re-Engaging Youth to Society

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  1. OldSoul

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    Dr. Carl Bell's Keys to Reducing Violence and Re-Engaging Youth to Society

    Dr. Carl C. Bell's Seven Principles for Changing At-Risk Behavior and Cultivating Resiliency Among Youth


    1. Rebuilding the Village/Reweaving the social fabric/Recreating a sense of community
    Reestablishing a sense of community by bringing together churches, schools, and families to create networks, organize resources and establish programs that provide support, safety and security for our youth. A sense of community also reinforces cultural identity.

    2. Providing access to ancient and modern technology to provide practical systems for the application of knowledge
    Providing models, tools, skills and techniques to facilitate implementation of the concept or program (for example, mentoring, multi-family groups, how to cultivate resiliency and wellness, and manualized family interventions).

    3. Providing a sense of connectedness
    Creating situations, programs and relationships that foster a sense of connection, attachment, and belonging to a larger group or a common goal. This counters feelings of alienation, helps provide feelings of security, and increases self-esteem. Again, reestablishing the village reinforces cultural identity and can be a platform for the delivery of cultural education. Well thought out rites of passage (e.g. the belt system of progression in Japanese martial arts) programs have been very effective in actualizing this principle.

    4. Providing opportunity to learn social & emotional skills
    Providing social and emotional skills that people need to interact and communicate with each other. This not only increases self-esteem but effectiveness in relationships as well. These include parenting skills, refusal skills, negotiating skills, the capacity to remain calm in a crisis, and more.

    5. Providing opportunities to increasing self-esteem
    A. Giving our children a sense of power (self-efficacy) by showing them they can do things for themselves and positively influence their own lives. For example, adopting healthy behaviors creates both a sense of wellness and an outcome of wellness.
    B. Providing a sense of models to help our young make sense of the world and teaching them how things work. Mentoring is a very powerful model that can be used to achieve this. A strong cultural value system is another.
    C. Creating a sense of specialness and uniqueness as an individual or group. Clearly, knowing and respecting your culture gives you a sense of power by virtue of being connected to something valuable and strong.
    D. Creating a sense of connectedness - encouraging bonding and connection to a culture, group or an idea. Teaching them their history and cultural significance creates a sense of power from being associated with a rich and powerful legacy. Spirituality is another powerful influence in encouraging connectedness.

    6. Providing an adult protective shield
    Providing an adult protective shield and monitoring speaks to providing supervision, discipline, and a caring adult presence. These foster a sense of safety and security. The concept of the village with multiple adult figures taking responsibility for the nurture and well-being of the village children is a concept that connects us to our culture and our spirituality. Wellness is also important in this respect. A child can be severely stressed by the illness of a caretaking adult, so it is in the best interest of the adult to adopt behaviors that promote wellness, both personally, and as a model for children to emulate.

    7. Minimizing trauma
    Minimizing trauma - Developing an individual's spirituality, a person's sense of self-efficacy, helping create a sense of safety, and providing stress management skills as well as psychological first aid (see attached) to encourage a sense of self-mastery and turn helplessness into helpfulness are all examples of putting this principle into action.

    For over 30 years, Dr. Bell has practiced psychiatry. As an internationally recognized lecturer and author, he has given numerous presentations on mental wellness, violence prevention, and traumatic stress caused by violence. Most recently, he has participated as the Principle Investigator with CHAMP, an HIV/AIDS youth prevention research project in South Africa. He is the author of The Sanity of Survival: Reflections on Community Mental Health and Wellness and co-author of Suicide and Homicide Among Adolescents. Dr. Bell is also a clinical professor of psychiatry and public health at the University of Illinois School of Medicine. In recognition of his efforts to reduce violence, he became the first recipient of the American Psychiatric Foundation's Minority Service Award in 2004. He is also the recipient of the American Psychiatric Association's Presidential Award.

     
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    great post old soul......

    I'm in a current situation where I'm trying to mentor a young man and I really need some ideas on how I can increase his level of self esteem........any suggestions are welcomed.
     
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    Is this to imply that he has low self-esteem, or he has a decent level of it, but just falling off, and looking to bounce back, and regain a hightened sense of it? (when you think about it, there is a difference...)

    KWABENA
     
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    I think what oldsoul posted was just as good of an ideal as any, there are some good info placed here to use !
     
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    Some good information here!

    Worth your consideration...
     
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    Culture is the acid that dissolves the chain of Slavery

    Like a hot knife through butter.

    That is why to the opressor it was of the
    utmost importance
    to torture any remnant of culture from us
    after we were kidnapped and brought
    to this part of the planet.

    This is also why the Afrocentric Movememt was attacked and ostracized even to this day by mass media, and all oligarchic apparatus

    African culture or the embracement of pure African values, divested of prejudice and dogma

    is a healing and liberating factor regarding all of he present problems facing African people, and the swerving fro such paradigms is what leaves folks open to outer attack,and abuse.

    Looking at Dr Bell's thesis, one can see how African culture reveals a similar antidote to the poison of fratricide ;

    "1 Rebuilding the village"
    A recurrent theme and concept in all African cultures

    "2 Providing access to ancient and modern technology to provide practical systems for the application of knowledge "
    those with a solid and fortified culture maintain this paradigm

    "3. Providing a sense of connectedness "
    The African peer pressure system was geard towards excellence

    "4. Providing opportunity to learn social & emotional skills"
    Event and festivals were common place to encourage healthy interactions with those other then family

    "5. Providing opportunities to increasing self-esteem"
    The rites of passage as well as healthy compettitive games and sports,
    games on the creative, intellectual, physical and spritual level, accentuating the process of a child learning their special talents

    "6. Providing an adult protective shield"
    African secret societies provided a watchfull and protective eye on the young

    "7 Minimizing trauma - Developing an individual's spirituality"
    paramount to the rites of passage and their purpose
     
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