Black Relationships : Keeping Things To Yourself

legit-writer

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A valuable lesson I have learned the hard way so many times.
It seems that honesty isn't the best policy in other
people's eyes, but in my world and eyes it is, but so far no
one has really understood that or appreciated me for it. I
find myself regretting it more and more. If a guy tries to
holler at you and he is really persistent and yall cannot
stand one another, and their partner wants to know about
this and you tell them, but they do not know how to handle
the information given to them, and then they go as far as
saying they are tired of hearing about them and if they
don't hear about them then they will feel a lot better, a
lot less frustrated, less irritable and more confident in
things between the two of you. And to find out that their
confidence that they once had in their relationship has
dropped is a terrible feeling for the other person to carry
around and bear. Because of that, it only makes that person
not feel comfortable telling the other person anything
because they want to keep the peace in the relationship and
that's just how things end up going, and folks wonder why
communication remains to be one of the most difficult things
to do to maintain a relationship of any kind. No one wants
to hear or see the truth that is given and placed before
their eyes. They don't want to see the fact that it takes
hard work to keep things going the way it should go. Instead
they rather see the greener side of things, when things are
not always going to be that way because reality says that
there will be challenges and obstacles that come our way and
strong people fight through them as a team rather than
divide and let those obstacles and challenges conquer. With
that being said, until I find the right people who is
willing to work with me and appreciate my honesty, then I guess the title of this thread will continue to stand tall.... Any opinions?
 

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