Okay I WAS an avid reader of Essence,Ebony and all of that, until I got tired of supporting magazines that constantly on the front..Why do Men cheat..do black men still want us ..yah yah yah..It's like they are supposed to be BLACK magazines..yet they are cutting down our community with a double edge sword. It's just tiring..it tells you on one hand how to have a healthy relationship then next..telling you not to get into one or to be watchful because here are the signs..that he might be cheating on you and stuff. I mean yes you do have to be careful, but you end up being so brainwashed..that u miss the love because you are supposed to be looking for the signs. I mean when are we going to see magazines with articles on how to love each other righteously..and big bold covers with headlines about love..and not the bad parts of it. How can we expect to move on as a family/community/nation without love for one another. Alot of women are out here hollering..we want a good man..but they subconsciously hate him.Come on..get real. Can we pick up the pieces..and be like Ossie and Ruby?.. Im worried about the black family..Its getting sickening.