I've noticed a lot of sisters seem to be in bad situations. men who abuse them in one way or another. why do they marry or get engaged to these losers? are women so eager to get married that they will take any creep who comes along as long as he is willing to marry? sisters, stop this! stop letting yourself be played. please stop letting yourself be hurt. it breaks my heart some of the stories i have read. let me tell you some thing from the man's point of view. if a man sees a woman he wants to play, the most effective way to do that is to offer marriage. now a days you only have to offer to live with them. for some reason as long as you offer to stay with her and marry her, a woman will lay down and give you anything. sisters, please stop. I'm a man and i can't take much more of hearing from sisters how badly they have been played. sisters are so desperate to marry they will take any thing as long as he will marry them. a player can run his entire operation from your home as your man if you volunteer to be his slave. a player knows this. he can have you and others too. marriage is one of the oldest tricks in the players book. i beg my sisters to stop being such suckers for the players of this world. if he wants to marry you it should be in order for him to take care of you, not the other way around. if a man can not provide, he don't need to be no daddy. why are you letting all these men up in your stuff without no rubbers? your get the babies, you get the STDs. you are left crying the blues while he is out in someone else's stuff. why do you do that? sisters, please, come correct. cross your legs and keep them crossed. buy a vibrator. protect your self! i love my sisters and I'm tired of seeing them so low.