I have to agree with Solo on this one. I don't think badly of sistas as a whole. I just think we should all be realistic about the world that we are living in. Black women can be beautiful, no one doubts that. Black women can be strong and loving also. Not all are though. Same as us brothas. We can work hard, stick around for our children and turn the other cheek when you slap us in the face first. We're not all bad. I just think some women don't like knowing that some men won't just settle because you're a black woman. I would never say all black women are loud, materialistc, uneducated tramps, but I will say the majority of the ones that I have come across have a few of those attributes. Black women are the ideal mate for the black man, but if I never find a black woman to share my life with, it isn't because I turned the good one's away. It's because there were none around worth my time and effort. But I do love the sistas on the site. It's a shame I only seem to find good sistas hundreds of miles away.