Black Relationships : It's me, not you....What are YOUR flaws?

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  1. MsInterpret

    MsInterpret Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    We all gripe over how the opposite sex does this and that in a relationship...But what flaws do you have when it comes to relationships?

    This may be hard for some to do, so I'll go first and lay it out on the table...

    Mine would be:

    I'm shallow...Little things like messed up teeth, pimples, head-size, outfits, etc. (even though they can be fixed) I tend to shun...or won't talk too.

    I'm overly-opinionated....I have an opinion about EVERYTHING and I can take an argument and escalate it within seconds.

    I'm demanding...If something is not done when I want it or how I want it I get mad..

    I'm hot-headed...Little things like a joke, will piss me off.

    I get bored easily....I can be into a guy for a couple months and if he's not doing what I expect, I get bored and leave.

    Let's see if someone else is bold enough to go....
     
  2. rapunzal24

    rapunzal24 Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Hmmmm....let's see. My flaws would be:

    I can be a little demanding.
    Closed off
    I have a tendency to get in a funky mood for no good reason. That is when I need my alone time.
    I HAVE BEEN TOLD that my standards are too high.
    I use to be very judgemental, I eventually learned how to tone it down, but every now and again it creeps back up.
    Selfish
     
  3. Destee

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    right off the top ...

    i talk too much and i'm too emotional

    :heart:

    Destee
     
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    I am a very emotional brother and being under the sign of the twins i change
    what i may laugh at this second won't be funny the next!

    I have a pet peev about somethings that may go on

    I am a homebound kinda man which can be a flaw
    I'm kinda like a secret mystery who likes it and i've heard many women say
    i'm too secretive

    I compose a high standard in a woman which i look for 5 things that tells me a lot
    the flaw of it is ........it may be too high

    I have a few more that i know and aware of

    surely we all have flaws but afraid to tackle them and correct them even when we
    know them, i try every day to better myself and correct mines beyond being judge
    some of us have them and not aware as well .........
     
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    Shikamaru Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Head-size ..... ROFL .... awesome :)
     
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    Shikamaru Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I'm extremely headstrong. Can be overwhelming and dominating. Don't know when to stop.
    I can be cold and calculating.
    I can give off a "know-it-all" attitude.
    Can become aloof at times.
    I play around too much at times.
    I'm a perfectionist.
    I have a quick temper.
     
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    cherryblossom Banned MEMBER

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    I can be moody/emotional.

    ...at times, distrustful. I may not speak or act on it right away; but I will "stick a pin in it" to wait and see if my suspicions are valid.

    ...some might call it "snobbish" --I prefer to call it "polished." :D
    but I can't stand poor speech and poor table etiquette...irritates me to the nth degree.

    ...just a few "isms," is all.....otherwise, I'm PERFECT! :D lol...j/k
     
  8. noor100

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    I like this thread.

    I feel i can be
    aloof
    too sensitive
    opinionated
    impatient
    emotional
    too picky and
    clingy[i think thats the word]
     
  9. legit-writer

    legit-writer Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    flaws:

    cold or unsympathetic at times
    not very trusting of relying on folks so I don't ask for help (really working on that right now)
    easily bored
     
  10. MsInterpret

    MsInterpret Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Head-Size is a factor
     
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